Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) and anxiety often go hand in hand, leaving many parents wondering how these conditions are connected. While ADHD is commonly associated with hyperactivity, impulsivity, and difficulty focusing, anxiety involves excessive worry and fear. Surprisingly, children with ADHD are significantly more likely to experience anxiety disorders than those without ADHD. But why does this happen, and how can parents help?
How Are ADHD and Anxiety Connected?
ADHD and anxiety frequently occur together, making it challenging to separate their symptoms. Studies show that nearly 30-50% of children with ADHD also have an anxiety disorder. These conditions share many overlapping traits, which can sometimes lead to misdiagnosis or incomplete treatment. Understanding why they are so closely linked can help parents seek the right support for their child.
1. Overlapping Symptoms
Both ADHD and anxiety can cause difficulty with focus, restlessness, and trouble sleeping. A child struggling to concentrate due to ADHD may appear distracted, but a child with anxiety might seem inattentive because they are overwhelmed with worry. This overlap can sometimes make it hard to determine which condition is at play.
2. Emotional Regulation Challenges
Many children with ADHD struggle to manage their emotions, leading to frequent frustration, mood swings, and heightened sensitivity to stress. These difficulties can increase the likelihood of developing anxious thoughts, especially in stressful situations such as school or social interactions.
3. Social and Academic Struggles
ADHD often affects a child’s ability to maintain friendships, complete schoolwork, and follow instructions. These challenges can lead to self-doubt and stress, ultimately increasing anxiety. Children who frequently receive negative feedback about their behavior may start to anticipate failure or rejection, fueling their worries even further.
4. Brain Function and Genetics
Both ADHD and anxiety are linked to differences in brain chemistry, particularly in areas that regulate attention, impulse control, and emotional responses. Research suggests that children with ADHD have an imbalance in dopamine levels, which affects motivation and reward processing. Anxiety, on the other hand, is often tied to increased activity in the amygdala, the brain’s fear center. These neurological factors can make it more likely for the two conditions to coexist.
Additionally, genetics play a role in both ADHD and anxiety. If a parent has one of these conditions, their child is more likely to develop it as well. This hereditary link explains why some families notice multiple members experiencing similar challenges.

Does ADHD Cause Anxiety, or Is It the Other Way Around?
While ADHD does not directly cause anxiety, its symptoms often contribute to stressful experiences that lead to excessive worry. A child with ADHD may frequently forget assignments, struggle to follow instructions, or experience difficulty making friends. Over time, these challenges can create frustration and nervousness about future situations.
For example, a child with ADHD who consistently has trouble completing homework may begin to dread school. They might worry about disappointing their parents, teachers, or themselves. This constant stress can turn into an anxiety disorder, affecting their daily lives.
Conversely, children with anxiety may display symptoms that resemble ADHD. When overwhelmed with anxious thoughts, a child may appear distracted, restless, or unable to complete tasks. In some cases, anxiety can be mistaken for ADHD, making a proper diagnosis essential.
If you’re unsure whether your child is experiencing ADHD, anxiety, or both, seeking an evaluation is the best step forward. Families covered by Horizon BCBS and Blue Cross Blue Shield may have access to specialists who can provide a thorough assessment and recommend the best treatment options.
How Can Parents Help a Child with ADHD and Anxiety?
Supporting a child with ADHD and anxiety requires a combination of structured routines, emotional guidance, and, in some cases, professional intervention. Here are some ways parents can help:
1. Create a Predictable Daily Routine
Children with ADHD thrive on structure, and predictability can also help ease anxiety. Establishing clear schedules for school, homework, meals, and bedtime can give children a sense of stability and reduce uncertainty.
2. Teach Relaxation Techniques
Helping your child develop relaxation strategies can improve both ADHD and anxiety symptoms. Deep breathing exercises, mindfulness activities, and simple stretching routines can promote calmness and self-regulation.
3. Build Confidence Through Positive Reinforcement
Praising effort instead of just results can boost a child’s self-esteem and help them feel more in control. Encouraging words and recognition of small successes can reduce anxiety about performance in school or social situations.
4. Address Sleep Issues
Many children with ADHD and anxiety struggle with falling asleep or staying asleep. A consistent bedtime routine, limited screen time before bed, and calming nighttime activities like reading or listening to soft music can improve sleep quality.
5. Provide Emotional Support
Encourage open conversations about feelings and reassure your child that it’s okay to talk about their worries. A supportive environment where they feel heard and understood can help ease anxiety symptoms.
6. Seek Professional Help When Needed
If ADHD and anxiety significantly affect your child’s daily life, professional support may be necessary. Many families covered by Horizon BCBS and Blue Cross Blue Shield can access therapy, behavioral counseling, and medical consultations to help manage symptoms effectively.
Can ADHD and Anxiety Be Treated Together?
Yes, ADHD and anxiety can be treated together through a combination of behavioral strategies, therapy, and in some cases, medication. Some of the most effective treatments include:
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): A structured form of therapy that helps children recognize and change negative thought patterns.
- Behavioral Interventions: Techniques that reinforce positive behaviors and help children develop better coping skills.
- Medication: Some children benefit from medication, but treatment plans should be carefully discussed with a healthcare provider.
Finding the right approach depends on your child’s specific needs, and working with a healthcare professional can help determine the best course of action.
Call Family Psychiatry and Therapy for Professional Help
If your child’s anxiety and ADHD symptoms are affecting their schoolwork, friendships, or home life, seeking professional guidance is a good step forward. Signs that your child may need extra support include:
- Frequent emotional outbursts or irritability
- Persistent worry about school, friends, or everyday situations
- Difficulty completing tasks or staying organized despite efforts to help
- Changes in sleep patterns, appetite, or mood
Many families rely on Horizon BCBS and Blue Cross Blue Shield to cover ADHD and anxiety treatments, ensuring their child receives the care they need. Consulting with a pediatrician, psychologist, or psychiatrist can provide clarity and guidance on the best treatment options.
If you’re concerned about your child’s ADHD and anxiety, contact us today to learn more about our evaluation and treatment services.